Sites not working

I've installed my Server using this: http://www.howtoforge.com/installing-lighttpd-with-php5-and-mysql-on-centos-5.2
I'm using CentOS 5.5, thought.
Next, I've configured /etc/httpd/conf/httpd.conf, so I could host multiple sites (aka, VirtualHost), nothing else has been changed.

Code:

### Section 3: Virtual Hosts
#
# VirtualHost: If you want to maintain multiple domains/hostnames on your
# machine you can setup VirtualHost containers for them. Most configurations
# use only name-based virtual hosts so the server doesn't need to worry about
# IP addresses. This is indicated by the asterisks in the directives below.
#
# Please see the documentation at
# <URL:http://httpd.apache.org/docs/2.2/vhosts/>
# for further details before you try to setup virtual hosts.
#
# You may use the command line option '-S' to verify your virtual host
# configuration.

#
# Use name-based virtual hosting.
#
NameVirtualHost *:80
#
# NOTE: NameVirtualHost cannot be used without a port specifier
# (e.g. :80) if mod_ssl is being used, due to the nature of the
# SSL protocol.
#

#
# VirtualHost example:
# Almost any Apache directive may go into a VirtualHost container.
# The first VirtualHost section is used for requests without a known
# server name.
#
<VirtualHost *:80>
    ServerName www.yamihoshi.nl
    ServerAlias yamihoshi.nl
    DocumentRoot /home/yamihoshi.nl
    Options MultiViews FollowSymLinks
    Options MultiViews IncludesNoExec FollowSymLinks
    Options +Includes
</VirtualHost>

<VirtualHost *:80>
    ServerName www.mariokartcw.org
    ServerAlias mariokartcw.org
    DocumentRoot /home/mariokartcw.org
    Options MultiViews FollowSymLinks
    Options MultiViews IncludesNoExec FollowSymLinks
    Options +Includes
</VirtualHost>

<VirtualHost *:80>
    ServerName www.woondroomgoes.nl
    ServerAlias woondroomgoes.nl
    DocumentRoot /home/woondroomgoes.nl
    Options MultiViews FollowSymLinks
    Options MultiViews IncludesNoExec FollowSymLinks
    Options +Includes
</VirtualHost>

But if I go to one of these sites, I can get either a "404 - Not Found", or a dead link.
At the first few minutes, it seemed that one of them could view "index.html", but nothing else.
So, what am I doing wrong?
And, how to solve it?

Update1:
The vHost part is solved, using lighttpd.conf.
Now I get 403 - Forbidden messages.

Update2:
403 errours solved.
Just done this in the /home directory:
chown -R lighttpd:lighttpd *

Update3:
Problem not solved.

 

Now I see, if I go back to the original hoster, the sites also don't work.
If I go to my other VPS, they also don't work.

Now I'm totally lost.
Could someone help me?

Update1:
After "ps aux | less", I see Lighttpd isn't running at all.
However though I've started it successfully for a billion times already.
So, how to start it, so it's really started?

Update2:
After the command "lighttpd -f /etc/lighttpd/lighttpd.conf", no errours showed up.
Now what?

 

/etc/httpd/conf/httpd.conf belongs to Apache, not Lighttpd, so I guess you have Apache running. What's the output of

Code:

netstat -tap

?

 

I already said I found that out already.
I'm now trying Debian on that VPS, so this thread is no longer usable.
But it will be, if Debian fails on MySQL, again.