oh crap...woops, it was late and i had been in front of the computer since 7am. I found it. I was looking under debian 9 and of course didnt find anything. However, the tutorial i was looking for was https://www.howtoforge.com/mounting-remote-directories-with-sshfs-on-debian-squeeze
That tutorial should work for Debian 9, except the starting at boot settings, since newer debians use systemd instead of initd.
