It seems mails sent to me are being queued. log below smtp-deb6 postgrey[6888]: action=pass, reason=client whitelist, client_name=mail-it0-f43.google, client_address=209.85.214.43, sender=myemail@gmail, recipient=email@mydomain Oct 20 08:24:58 smtp-deb6 postfix/qmgr[12890]: 616921994CF3: from=<myemail@gmail>, size=438926, nrcpt=1 (queue active) This has been going on for a couple of weeks now. queued mails are piling up.